Do Not Quit, Live Your Life

After a lot of bad experiences and challenges that life throws at us, we quit. We forget who we really are and become the outcome or reactionary person, a result of others' behaviors, hurts, difficulties of life and many such factors. We forget our main aim, we lose our goals, in short we lose the focus of our lives.

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Living with our transformed versions suffocates us every morning, because deep down we know this isn't the person who's living our life. There are those parts too where we are the ones behind transforming someone into what they are not. What matters is that we each one of us know exactly what we are doing and our egos, or may be the lack of understanding our inner self, doesn't let us accept the reality. But this lack of understanding or whatever we name it, won't matter once the person is totally transformed, and transformation come from the heart!

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If we are over dosed with all the melodrama of life, we start being dis-hearten and at one stage we stop caring becoming into whatever others' want us to be. Is this what we really want in our lives? To live a life that will constantly haunt us? A life that we know is not ours?

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While sitting all alone, when shed light upon our lives, many of us aren't happy with it. We are not satisfied with what our lives are turned into. We start losing hope. Because our hearts aren't satisfied. We know we aren't right. We know we deserve more. We know we need to do something to change this all. Each day that we spend seems like being wasted.

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So let's think over this all again.
Why can't we make changes in our life to make it better? To live a life that is okay with us? Why don't we listen to what our hearts say? let reconsider all the factors that have put us into this life.
We must start with realizing our worth. We should know what we deserve and then never again settle with things that go against what we deserve.

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Secondly, let's give ourselves a motive, a goal to fulfill. Because I believe an idle mind is the devil's workshop. Let the devil not ruin our lives, instead keep our brains busy with ideas and dreams to follow. We must shape up our lives in such a manner that each day is spend in such a way that it brings us closer to our dreams and motive. We MUST overcome all the obstacles in life for achieving our goals. So, from now on-wards lets see all the negativity around us as these obstacles, consider the bad behaviors and injustice from the people around us as small challenges instead of seeing them as those difficulties that changed our very being. Because it's all about how we see things. If we'll consider our problems as small obstacles, they'll become merely small obstacles only. Let's promise to ourselves that we won't let these small obstacles take over all our energy that we can use to achieve our goals.

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But while exploring ourselves we must remember that we are here to serve the humanity along with living our lives. So lets keep in mind not to hurt anyone on the way. let's vow to be a source of happiness for ourselves and for others too. Because only a person who is content with himself can make others content with him. Focus on not giving up and keep moving towards your destination, because you will defeat all the difficulties and the people hurting you when you achieve what you want in your life.

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Don't be afraid to fail in your journey. You'll fall for sure, in fact you'll fall many times on this path, just don't hesitate to stand up and move on again, because moving and trying is the only key that made the turtle win the race!

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For now I'll leave you to think what you can do to change your life, meanwhile live with these beautiful word of Mother Teresa:

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Letting Go When All Is Sorted Out And All The Truth Is Known!

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For many letting go is the only option. To resolve an issue at any point of our lives when we know there aren't many options, we make ourselves believe that its now the time to move on without going any further into the details of the issue. Whether it be a loved one cheating on you, or it be a failure in your plans, someone's death or may be someone's absence from our lives. Losing confidence that we can't make things better with all the facts and truths in our haands we end up accepting the scenario as it is. Because we know they somewhere in the mind our loved ones have already given a reason to our sufferings.

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Like when my mother passed away I questioned myself why did it happen to me? Why couldn't she recover from her illness like others usually do? But in the end and even now what I do to make myself better is that I raise an argument with in that she's better off dead. She might have had a bad life ahead, she would have been bed-ridden or worse of she was alive. Yet I am not satisfied because I know things could also be different than this.

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There are those too who cheat on their spouse, they might be sorry later on but they know they have damaged the other person a bit too deeply. At many points later in their lives though the guilt would constantly nag them, they'll fail to accept it. On the other hand the victim of the cheating/hurting episode might have accepted the situation and moved on with life yet when alone something, most probably the gut would shout thousands of doubts and reasoning with in the head. No doubt on many such days they still prefer to let it go, on the other hand all this will keep on disturbing them throughout the life.

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My point here is that what makes us go through this jeopardy of letting go? Why is it that we stop going deeper into the base of an issue to resolve it and try ending it when still on the surface?  I feel its like a person suffers from brain tumor and the doctor keeps him on paracetamol to diminish the pain! Why do we think that our problems will be sorted out by simply letting go without knowing the basis of these problems.

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Death of people we are closer to also leave us abandoned and deeply confused. But death makes things complicated as we can't still talk to the person who left us. On the other hand death teaches us a deeper lesson than any of the other relationship hurts. We should learn out of our loved one's death that we must make other relationships in our lives stronger and deeper. we must try not to come to a point where letting go is the only remaining option.

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We need to go deeper, talk about the details, know why it happened, accept if we are the culprits and then only we must agree that this had to happen according to our destiny.  But blaming destiny with out knowing the reasons to the bad things happening to us will only make us more uneasy and depressed.

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So now the next time your significant other hurts you or cheats on you and you both aren't ready to leave each other, just don't let it go. Sit and talk to each other openly and in detail. Realize why you were hurt and then accept each other's weakness that hurt both the parties, then only let it go. Have peace at your heart and the brain too! Just try to add in all the truth in your relationships and diminish all the lies because it's something that'll surely help you live a peaceful life; truth may hurt for a while but lies hurt forever!

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Remember there are rights and wrongs in every relationship, people come in your life, people leave you for good and for bad, and some people just leave the world leaving you all alone. The wrongs and rights that we share with these people are what defines our relationship with them. If the wrongs weren't meant to hurt you intentionally, let them them go and if the rights were hurting you in the long run, try to work things out. Because we live our lives once, and we should not only make it perfect for us, we must also try our best to make it memorable for others, as in the end only memories stay behind!

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