Over the last few days I made phone calls to my husband plus some text messages just to randomly tell him how much I love him and how important he is. This not only helped us rebound, I also noticed a difference in his mood. He seemed happier, cheerful and content. He also got me flowers one day.
I realize that this really worked plus I didn't know how important were these small presents to keep the spark alive until he gave me the flowers when I was least expecting. After realizing what affect this small favor had on me I knew it had the power to add charm and spark to the relation.
Presenting gifts and doing favors for others has always created a positive vibe among people. The gifts or favors do not have to be something big or too expensive. Even the smallest of gift a d favors can have biggest of impacts only if they have the purest intentions behind them!
My husband has given me flowers on many occasions, birthdays,anniversaries or even on the birth of my daughter. though I love flowers and they always make me happy, but getting them when I least expected made me happier!
So for a change lets start presenting our loved ones with small favors whether it be a flower, a small gift, a favor, anything that will make our significant one happier and revive the charm in our married life.
Okay, so let's list out all the small favors that can add spark to our marriage:
1. Presenting a flower to your partner for no reason might be a very small gesture but it has huge amount of worth. so next time when you come home, get her a flower. or the next time you set breakfast table, keep flowers for him on the table.
2. Unexpected help in household chores can really do a lot for all the ladies. So dear husbands, washing dishes after the dinner or spreading out the laundry won't harm you; it will only make your wives happier presenting you as a more charismatic husband. Plus doing things together will help you both spend time together.
3. Darling wives, let's do our husbands a favor by presenting a beautiful lady when they get back home. Wait a minute guys! don't get too happy, we will present ourselves as those beautiful ladies!
so ladies, you know when your husbands return home, let's get up and dress up beautifully for our men, like we did on our dates before getting into this auspicious relationship.
4. You need to go get small presents at least once a month. Save money specially for buying these gifts. give your spouse a small pendant or may be as small a gift as a card that'll remind her or him how important they are. buy anything and give it with a simple peck or a tight hug and see how it creates magic between you two.
5. Making bed work wonders. The next time when your spouse goes to the washroom in the morning try to make bed before their return and she the pleasure on their faces. Or maybe before your spouse comes to bedroom to sleep at night, make the bedroom nicely prepared. switch on the night lamp, spread out the quilt ready to use, keep their night dress ready, just do any of these or all of these if you have enough time and energy and the spark radiating from them!
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