A mother's heart is always with her children and so she's considered the most precious treasure in a person's life universally. No matter what a person is like, he'll always be dear to his mother. At time it may seem like the mother can't really differentiate between the wise and the bad man, but that's not true. the fact is that mothers themselves are so wise that despite of all the bad qualities in their child mothers are capable of seeing the good ones even if they are as little as one, and they praise their child's that particular quality.
As a newborn a child is totally dependent on the m other but with time as it grows into an adult dependency on mother decreases gradually. Mothers loves loving and caring for their children around the clock without ever complaining. As the child's dependency decreases, mothers start feeling left out. this happens in every mothers life and is considered to be the most depressing factor especially in elderly mothers.
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he point here is not to tell you the sad story of mothers being left out but to show you what this motherly love really is. I lost my mother back in 2010 after two years of painful illness.
She really was the whole world to me. Near her end she was bedridden and I attended to her 24/7. Yet i didn't realize her real worth until i myself gave birth and became a mother!
Now each time i see my daughter i know what my mother was like, as even the way a mother looks at her child is not an ordinary look! its a look filled with love, worry, prayers and all sort of good wishes for the future. Honestly, a mother is way deeper than what we see on the surface. the next time you see a mother looking at her child try to see deeper, try to see all that love, those prayers and good wishes, all the worries that radiate from her. You might be able to peek at her inner-self then.
Since I first got to know that I was carrying a child in me, I became a very different person who'm i never knew existed. I simply changed by 360°. The once very clumsy, careless, and unhealthy eater turned into a concerned, focused and health conscious individual. It all changed for the love of my child, i started worrying about myself which was totally alien to me, just because i knew i can't risk my child's health.
After the birth of my daughter I realized just how true the saying, having a child is to have your heart living outside you body, is. Each movement of my daughter, each step of hers, each breath of her makes my heart beat faster. I've seen the emotional extremes in a lot of movies but I've only experienced it in motherhood. My daughter's smile is enough to brighten up my gloomiest days while her tears can over shadow my happiest day. I feel her pain right inside my heart and her joy warms it up.
No matter how old a mother is, no matter how frustrated creature she has become over the years, treat her nicely, because even in anger and bad mood the unconditional love of a mother can not be hidden.
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